
Friendship can never be defined as a word, it can never be said either as a fact. Friendship only appears in situations not only hard ones but joyful and happy ones as well. A friend is the person who will always find a way to help you. A friend does not have to tell you they love you or treat you well all the time.
A friend will help you with action; they will cheer you up by taking you for coffee or even distracting you by taking you out to dinner. Sometimes people have the tendency to be selfish and only want to talk about themselves and that is fine but that won't be the usual if they are real friends. When friends are disappointed at each other they always need to solve the problem by talking to each other not escaping from the issue and stopping to communicate. It's more of a pattern than a random relation a friend completes the other. A friend might sometimes treat you as a pet only wanting you for themselves and will be jealous when they feel that someone is taking their place even if it is work. Friends love is a unique kind of love something that completes a missing part. A friend is kind of an element to happiness a tool for joy that can never be replaced by a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Friends will calm you towards your parents when you are mad at them and will in one way or another fix what is going on. A true friend will know your weak points and will avoid putting you in situations that would make you weak.
When a friend stops talking to you for something you did in order to make them happy and they misunderstood it they should apologize or at least talk about it to make things clear. A friend is the person who makes you happy and you feel there is something wrong when they are not around. What I'm saying is a part of our daily life an experience we go through everyday.
The bad part of such relationships is the boy-girl one when one of them falls in love with the other due to day to day talking and communication as that mostly ruins the relation and it has been said and proven that between men and women there is no friendship its either worship, love, or hatred but not friendship which I kind of disagree with it as there are some rare cases of pure brotherhood with men.
In the end of the day, to me friendship is a very sacred relationship even more sacred than marriage as a true friend will not cheat, will not lie, and will be truly and purely in love with their friend.
No comments:
Post a Comment